And here it is – the final post about my Fabulous 40 NYC birthday trip!

Today started as a very early morning so I had time to get up, have breakfast, and finish packing, and get to the airport on time.

I left the hotel right about when I planned and traffic wasn’t too bad (I took a Lyft again), so made it to the airport in plenty of time. The security line was surprisingly short. It would have gone smoother if people realized that it is designed to allow four people to put their stuff in the bins at a time, but there were 3 open places and the person in front of me wasn’t going to any of them. While I can see how this system is supposed to work, another issue is that there is no place to set your stuff while putting it in the bin – for example, I have to open my backpack to take items out – but there isn’t a place (except the floor) to set it while doing so. On the other end of the x-ray there is a place where the bin sits while they analyze it to determine if it needs manual inspection or not. When my bin was sitting there, I started silently cheering for it to go down the belt that doesn’t need further inspection – luckily it went that way.

My flight from New York to DTW was uneventful and even arrived early, which was very nice, as I had a tight connection, so this made the connection possible without rushing or any worries. The middle seat was empty which made for a very nice flight. Grabbed a quick Frosty from Wendy’s at DTW before catching my flight back to Lansing. On the flight from DTW to LAN I knew I was back in Michigan as we hit some rough air (previously known as turbulence), so “Welcome to Michigan, where not only do we have rough roads, we have rough air!” Got my luggage quite quickly (minus my luggage tag, that finally wore out enough I guess that it is somewhere at an airport or in a plane!) and went to my car. I remembered where it was! Then it was a simple drive home and that ended the vacation.

Some closing thoughts.

While walking around and observing traffic in NYC, I discovered several of the problems with traffic flow. Cars would go into the intersection even if they couldn’t get all the way through, so then the light would change and they would be stuck in the intersection and the cross traffic couldn’t go either. I always thought you weren’t supposed to enter an intersection unless you could get through it. Also, pedestrians would cause problems. Often people would cross the street without a walk sign, but mostly they’d make sure there was no traffic and it was fine. However, some times they would just start crossing even with traffic coming, so then traffic couldn’t move at all because people couldn’t wait for the walk sign. Still glad I don’t have to drive in NYC!

I did a lot of walking in these 8 days! Over the 8 days I walked a total of 159,586 steps or about 74 miles! Yikes! On average that is about 20,000 steps/day or almost 10 miles a day! My legs are looking pretty awesome though!

My hotel was perfect! While based on the reviews I was a little nervous about the room size and the noise from the city, as some had concerns with that in the reviews. Yes, the room was a bit smaller than a hotel room you’d find in other cities, but nothing crazy – it was prefect for what I needed. I hardly ever noticed any city noise except for the occasional siren, but I get that here as well. The staff at the hotel were great – very polite and friendly. Especially the desk clerk who worked in the afternoons/evenings. He always had a big smile and a “hello” when I’d come in. Which, from my adventures I came and went a lot! Usually wearing something different each time! The location was perfect as well – right by the main things I was doing, lots within walking distance. It served as a perfect “vacation central” spot to do all my activities from. I’d certainly stay there again.

I’m sure I’ll get asked the general overarching question “Did you like New York City?”. As a city itself, to me it is just another city. It has people, it has buildings, it has stores and restaurants. So do all other cities. I’ll admit Times Square was pretty cool. More importantly I enjoyed the things New York City has to offer – mainly the shows. Someone I was chatting with said they did quite a few shows in a short time and they got burned out and was ready for a break from seeing theatre. Not me! I could have easily stayed another week and seen 8 more shows! The 9/11 Memorial was very awesome as well. Also, when thinking about “Could I live there?” my initial reaction is I probably could based on my experience, but then I realize – that I didn’t “live” there for the past week, I was on vacation. I didn’t have to go to work, have to buy groceries, do banking, etc. So hard to tell how it would be to live somewhere based on a vacation alone.

Prior to the trip I’m sure most of you know I spent hours and hours researching and planning things. Figuring out which activities to do on what days based on location and timing and my projected emotional state. I would obsess about making the perfect decisions for this trip. While, I know being spontaneous can be good for people, I also know that I am most happy when I have a nice plan and things all figured out – nice and orderly. Because of that – I would consider this trip perfectly successful. I can’t really think of anything I would have changed or done differently – everything worked out exactly as I expected.

Now for the post-vacation-blahs. Already as I type this, this vacation seems like a lifetime ago. The memories are that – just memories – starting to fade slowly in my mind. At times almost seems like a dream. That is the hard part of vacations is that they end. It is times like this that I wish I had a partner (not just a friend to go with me, but a true partner/boyfriend/husband) someone who I could share and relive these memories with. While being single is nice most of the time, certain times I do feel lonely.

Well, that is the wrap on my Fabulous 40 NYC birthday celebration! <bows><exit stage left><fade to black>

Today is the last full day for me in NYC for my Fabulous 40 NYC trip – so time for the day 7 recap!

Today started out earlier than other days because I had a lot to get crammed in to today. Started with, you guessed it, breakfast! It was a little less busy earlier in the morning! Then it was off to a day of adventures.

I hopped on the MTA to head down to Prospect Park in Brooklyn. Most people wondered why I wanted to go to Prospect Park after going to Central Park. It was for one main reason – I’ve always wanted to go since I was a kid. When I grew up I read books by Ruth Chew, she was one of my favorite authors. A lot of her books were set in Prospect Park. I don’t remember much about the books or the exact locations in the park, but I do remember that ever since I read those, I knew I had to visit Prospect Park. So I did in memory of Ruth Chew, since I’m sure she was part of the reason I love to read. I didn’t think Prospect Park was as nice as Central Park, it seemed more dirty and run down. It is still a well-used park by a lot of walkers, joggers, bikers, well-built shirtless guys sweating in the sun doing crunches, etc.

Also, this helped complete something else. I don’t know if anyone has been keeping track, but I flew into LaGuardia, which is in Queens, then rode through Queens to get to Manhattan where my home base has been. When I went to the zoo, that was in the Bronx. Last night I took the Staten Island ferry to Staten Island. Today I was in Brooklyn for Prospect Park. So I have now (at least briefly) been to all 5 boroughs. I’ve really visited all the parts of NYC!

After a brief walk around parts of Prospect Park, I went back on the MTA to head to the National 9/11 Memorial and Museum. I started there with a guided tour of the memorial. While waiting for the tour and seeing the memorial and the names, suddenly the weight and the feeling of the pain and sorrow of all those people and their families came down on me. I’m glad there were benches nearby because I needed to quickly sit down before I fell down. The tour was amazing, got to know a lot about the memorials, how the names were placed, some of the design concepts behind the memorial, and also the stories of some of the people and heroes that perished in the attacks. Several points along the tour I had to lean on something or kneel on the ground. I’m glad I brought my Kleenex along today!

After the tour was done, I went through the museum. A wonderful museum and very nicely done. I was very overwhelmed at many points and sat down when I could. There were tissue boxes at various points as well. I could have stayed in some places longer or all day just listening to the stories. There were some places I had to go through a bit quicker than I normally do at a museum, because my emotions were getting too strong and I just couldn’t handle any more. They had booths where you could record your 9/11 stories and thoughts – so I did that as well.

After my visit to the museum, I walked around the memorials some more and reflecting on them and the people’s names, and thinking how they all have a story and family they left behind. By this point I think I was completely emotionally drained. It was then time to head onto my next stop for the day.

I took the MTA again (so glad I got the unlimited pass!) north a bit to Greenwich Village and to Stonewall Inn. This is one of the gay areas of NYC and Stonewall Inn is where most consider the LGBTQ rights movement to have started, when there was police raids on the Stonewall Inn (a gay bar) and the community rose up against the police and rioted. I wanted to visit it today on June 12, because this is the 2nd anniversary of the massacre in Orlando, where 49 people were murdered in a gay nightclub. I thought I would be more emotional here, especially because it is June 12, but I wasn’t – I think I may not have had much left after the 9/11 Memorial/Museum. I went into the Stonewall Inn and had a drink as well in honor and memory of the 49. There is a park right outside as well that is a National Monument. I walked around the area for a bit, but didn’t come across anything super interesting, but did make sure to get a picture of Gay Street.

Then I walked up to the Highline, which is an elevated park that the community came together to save. It was an old elevated railroad track that was no longer used and vegetation had naturally taken over. The city wanted to tear it down, but the community saved it and maintains it. It was somewhat neat, but when you grow up in the UP of Michigan, you are used to seeing all kinds of vegetation everywhere. I did get gelato along the way.

I then walked a little ways to grab dinner/late lunch. This is the perfect time to eat because places aren’t busy! It was good to sit down as well after all that walking again! Then it was time to walk back to my hotel to get ready for my final play!

Tonight’s show was a comedy – specifically picked because I knew the day would be emotional. It was “The Play That Goes Wrong.” And it sure did! Wonderful show! Even before the play actually starts things happen and characters talk to the audience about stuff as well. If you’ve ever seen “Noises Off”, this is in a similar vain. It was very well done with very limber and acrobatic actors! It was great to have some very good laughs. Then it was time to walk back to my hotel, going through Times Square one more time, seeing the Majestic Theatre at night one more time, and the sadness of realizing my trip is almost over started setting in.

I’ve realized that it is never the cities themselves that I love so much on vacation, or what I do specifically, it is that vacation gets me away from my “real world” and allows me to live in a fantasy for awhile. I wish I could stay in that fantasy forever and not have to go back to my responsibilities. I know it’ll be a hard transition back into my regular life.

I just relaxed in the hotel for the rest of the evening and packed what I could because of my morning flight tomorrow.

A few final thoughts.

I’ve gotten quite good at the MTA, although now I want to research and read more about all the different lines and understand it better.

I still really could use a nice foot/leg massage when I’m done – I’ve sure walked a lot – I’ll post a final step/mileage count tomorrow.

I have a strange feeling I might need some drinks or company with someone tomorrow evening as I might enter my post-vacation funk.

Well – that is all for now – tomorrow is my travel day.